Meet
George.
Me in my VT Hokie cheerleading uniform. Him in sweatpants. Sounds about right. |
When I was
shopping for a father’s day card I ran across this one that said it better than
I ever could have.
It read:
How do you
know if a man is a hero? Ask him if he
has a daughter.
Yep. I started tearing up too. In Hallmark.
By myself. That’s why I love
cards. They have the ability to write
truth in a way that I never could. That
card is the one I gave to my dad yesterday since I won’t see him on Father’s
Day and that card is the epitome of our relationship. My dad
is my hero.
Growing up
everyone called me a “daddy’s girl.” For
starters I thought his baby pictures were pictures of me and not him. But more than that he was my best friend, the
one I wanted to marry for so long. The
one I thought literally hung the moon. The
one that read to me every night. The one
who stayed and watched my ballet classes through the tinted windows. The one who taught me patience and hard
work. The one that drove me – and all my
friends – to school (HIGH SCHOOL) every morning. The one that magically made my mom’s car
start running with one touch. The man
that fixed my heart when it was broken.
The man that pretended to be “friends” with any of my old flames (keep
your enemies closest right?). The man
that held my mom’s hand wherever we went.
The man that I could not bear to face when I had disappointed him. The man that I could count on always. And the man that did anything for me. Anything. He was and still is my hero. Of course now I’ve got two heroes – one being
my husband – but for so long he was the only man in my life who deserved my
attention.
christmas 2009 |
When I was
little I really believed it was magic. I
thought he had superhuman powers and for the most part I still believe that –
and it’s true. But the older I get the
more I see the sacrifice and the hard work that went into making all of those
things magically happen. The time and
energy he spent fixing my car or cleaning the pool so that my friends could
come over. Sure he was tired sometimes, probably
annoyed and he worked full-time but that never mattered. His family was and still is his
priority.
Dad,
Thank you
for your sacrifice and for your unconditional love. Thank you for always answering your phone
(and never getting annoyed when I call 20 times in a row). Thank you for showing me what a marriage should
look like and what the love of a father should be. Thank you for always being there for our
family. I love you more than words.
Love, Your Baby Girl
september 25, 2012. i will remember this moment forever |
Sorry for the poor quality but i love this one. Yes, I am wearing a Redskin's outfit and yes I have a Christmas present bow on my head. |
3 comments :
So, so sweet. I teared up reading this! What a wonderful father you must have. xo.
I am almost bawling, Nise! Love your daddy so much. I would've totally ridden the bus if it wasn't for George!
So incredibly sweet. Sounds like you're lucky to have such an amazing father who gave a great example of what a father and husband should be!
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